Iqra'

Wo... todayyyy is verrrry colllld... not complaining , lurve it... as we're staying in an apartment on top of a hill.. its rather chilling... no aircond needed... not that i installed any...not even fan needed... outside i can touch and feel the 'cloud' hehe...

this past few days my machine has been attacked by virusses, Gawd..everyday.. theres virusses, fortunately we have this AVG , Spybot, LAvasoft..and dono what else my other half installed... if not for that, my machine would be crash boom bang... hmmm... what happen to roxette...after this i'll try to 'google' their web.. use to love their music

and 3 days ago... I went to my 'workplace' with my children, after doing my work, we had a late lunch at a nice restaurant, it has been a while a, and then we went to MPH... a must for my children ayska 6 and Amar 2, they cant resist the bookshop, only go there and browse the books.. usually didnt buy as it is usually out of my budget.. so just let them read.. cultivate reading habit for them.. but that day i decided to buy one each, the cheapest one... MPH not cheap.. i'd rather buy in pay less bookstore in ampang point.. as some books, when bring back home, may end up in a dustbin as the baby who does not know how to appreciate books just love to chew and tear some of the books that are easily teared...but i make sure the one that my good friend gave ( Rina ) a set of Disney's book is well kept - sooo precious, also my precious enid blyton's set , keep it somewhere safe until they really know how to appreciate books. anyway my children loves books as the father likes to read.. the habit genetically comes from him i supposed, i love reading too but only when i'm interested and only when I felt like it, nowadays with all the motherhood craziness, i rather not read as i wont be able to concentrate and if i dont put the book somewhere safe.. it'll then you 'know what..

but that day in MPH, a book strikes me to read again... Frank Mc Court's.. I love his writing very cynical, spontaneous , funny... it started when i watch the movie Angela Ashes from the movie... i then decided to buy 'Tis, sequel to that movie.. and now he has a new novel... got to buy.. got to buy..tunggu gaji...

Unlike my other half who loves Tom Clancy and similar writers, war and historic books, fantasies books, STAR WARS, sci-fi.. I'd prefer the stories about families, friends, true stories, motivational stories and also some horroric ones like Amytville, Stephen King's. My normal routine is women magazines and the news..

PEACE

Question u MighT have an answer but i dont..

Why do we press harder on a remote control when we know the batteries are getting weak?

Why do banks charge a fee on "insufficient funds" when they know there is not enough?

Why does someone believe you when you say there are four billion stars, but check when you say the paint is wet?

Why doesn't glue stick to the bottle?

Why do they use sterilized needles for death by lethal injection? Why doesn't Tarzan have a beard?

Why does Superman stop bullets with his chest, but ducks when you throw a revolver at him?

Why do Kamikaze pilots wear helmets?

Whose idea was it to put an "S" in the word "lips"?

If people evolved from apes, why are there still apes?

Does a clean house indicate that there is a broken computer in it?

Why is it that no matter what color bubble bath you use the bubbles are always white?

Is there ever a day that mattresses are not on sale?

Why do people constantly return to the refrigerator with hopes that something new to eat will have materialized?

Why do people keep running over a string a dozen times with their vacuum cleaner, then reach down, pick it up, examine it, then put it down to give the vacuum one more chance?

Why is it that no plastic bag will open from the end you first try?

How do those dead bugs get into those closed light fixtures?

When we are in the supermarket and someone rams our ankle with a shopping cart then apologizes for doing so, why do we say, "It's all right? Well, it isn't all right so why don't we say, "That hurt, you stupid idiot?"

Why is it that whenever you attempt to catch something that's falling off the table you always manage to knock something else over?

In winter, why do we try to keep the house as warm as it was in summer when we complained about the heat?

Why do you never hear father-in-law jokes?

If at first you don't succeed, shouldn't you try doing it like your wife told you to do it? And obviously if at first you don't succeed, then don't take up sky diving!

The statistics on sanity are that one out of every four persons is suffering from some sort of mental illness. Think of your three best friends, if they're okay, then it's you.

from asian woman

==sorry no originalities yet..coming soon ==

PEACE

the good wife guide 1955

Wellllll, nobody told me that I'm suppose to be like this before i decided to get married...... so..errr what the heck... I cant change that now..hehe good excuse eh...so for those who's getting married ;) or want to get married, or getting married again, married but wants to change... here u are... very conservative ( dont tell me i didnt tell you hehe), good example for your kids...Would It?

The Good Wife's Guide
- Have dinner ready, Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.- Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.- Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.- Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives.- Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper etc. and then run a dustcloth over the tables.- Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.- Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimise all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.- Be happy to see him.- Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.- Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.- Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.- Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.- Don't greet him with complaints and problems.- Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.- Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.- Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.- Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.- A good wife always knows her place.

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Goody!

...After the BLASTFUL Planet night last nite..after the 'neckache' head bangings and out of step 'exercise' which i have not done for 6 years...after Paul has proof to me that she's still da bomb so is baby angel and KS and Bell are having a fanstatica time ;).. hehe check out this picts.. my hair sort of look like that too today heheeeehahaha..only the hair aaaa...the position of the hair..my hair is black..not the monkeyy aaa...dono why i have to justify.. although the baby monkey kinda cute... toink toink

p/s: thnks darl for the chance to have a good time


PEACE

buah cempedak di luar pagar...

The Star 23 july 2006

'Cempedak King’ Fong tells of jibes 20 years ago
BY SYLVIA LOOI SEEDLESS!
TAPAH: Nearly two decades ago when he wanted to go into large-scale planting of the cempedak, his friends told him it would be a foolhardy venture.
Today, they call Fong Kwai Keong, 49, the King of Cempedak.
“My friends advised me against planting cempedak trees as they had failed in their efforts.
But I wanted to prove them wrong and decided to go on,” he said at his 6.5ha orchard in Chenderiang, about 12km from here, yesterday. He is one of Perak’s biggest exporters of the fruit, which is more succulent and less fibrous than nangka, another jackfruit variant.


He has been cultivating cempedak (Artocarpus champeden) trees for 18 years, with varieties like a seedless cempedak, a durian-fragrant cempedak, and the luscious “Perak champion”.
Fong has more than 600 trees at his orchard and most of his fruits are exported to Singapore. “The fruit is in great demand there,” he said.
Asked why he chose cempedak over other more lucrative fruits or crops, he said: “The cempedak tree bears fruits all year round. Besides, there are not many people planting cempedak trees.”
Before his cempedak venture, Fong was planting oil palms and durian trees.

EMMM.. sedapnya...one day i hope to be able to have a land with fruit trees and harvest it and sell.. export...

PEACE

Big Brotha'

Last Thursday I was the so the very the happy..when i finally manage to talk to my 'big brother'.. he is sort of like the 'pet brotha' kinda thingy but i dont really believe in this pet pet thing, thanks to the 'googling' world...SEARCH his full name: the government agencies that his working with...tadaaaa...walah... i located him. He is now in hk. the government agencies that his working with has sent him almost all over the world..well not even almost lah...but he travel more than we do here .. err..ye ke well something like thatlah kan..urmm..ooh..and by the way he sort of responsible for the 'meeting' of me and my other half - me and his gurlll and that point of time were sort of housemate..err ..sort off lah..sebab dia kejap ada and then kejap takde..but she's a good friend of mine till now..and this 'big bro is my other-half housemate - this is during the college years...and to make long story short, we end up getting married and big bro and my friend didnt get further... but we're still good friend with both - its just that big bro sort of 'membawa diri' - and we only knew his little update via mutual friend and the last time we met was almost 10 years ago.

So last Thursday, after gotten his email address, which is the official government agency international address not his personal.. and I wrote there, "I would be please if Mr. A could reply my email to get reacquainted" and i attach my signature with my phone number...and then i think about 30 mins after that .... aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa... I was screaming ..he called, from HK... nice talking to him espescially when we talk and when he talk with everyone else pun, he always have this mind boggling statement and ' have to read between the line' statement and 'make you feel dumb' statement - we use to have that kind of 'conversation' together gether and i learn alot about ' communication' as i am the straight forward and emotional type... and I missed that as now me and my other-half we dont really do that anymore sebab banyak problem so lazy to think complicatedly. so after talking on the phone , I ym my other-half and we end up conferencing from 2 pm to 6 pm, that he has to have lunch in the office... the thing is in the conference when my other-half and him starts to talk, i'll be left alone to figure out what they're talking about, you know the 'read between the line' etc etc thingy..But it was FUN, looking forward to meet him end of this year and maybe with his future wife?? hehe...

So any of my friend that read this, who knows him, well..yeah.. we have keep in touch again.. and he sent me his latest photo..but a dark one...typical him..hehe - good thing - if not everybody can see his face at my blog..ahak...

Enjoy 'meeting' you again bigbrotha!

PEACE

NEWS NEWS NEWS VIA...

Which news is better -
- from listening to the radio
- from watching the tv
- from the world wide web
- from newspaper


I rarely listen to the radio unless i am in a car..
I watch tv news only for the first 20 minutes news or maybe only listen to it, while i'm around the house doing the chores, at 8pm.. alot of things to do... small house so can hEAR everywhere and if heard something interesting will be standing right infront of the tv..and when the interesting news finish running around again
A must do everytime online, i search for news via internet only newspapers and bernama
I like to read newspaper but too much to read for one day sometimes i pile up somewhere for 'to-be-read-later' and then i'll end up piling it up and up and up then i decided to keep it together with the newspapers i've already read.. espescially the star, nst and the weekend utusan.

So i think i prefer the internet - i only choose what i want to click to.
but now... i like macam malas to even look at the title..espescially with the word BOMB, KAHWIN ( marriage ), CERAI (divorce), BUNUH (murder), ACCIDENT ..PROJEK TERBENGKALAI ..all that NO JUSTICE TO THE PEOPLE..

I like the word..

PEACE

Butchers

Apaaaa ni....when is the violence going to STOP!!.. They ( this powersuckers ppl ) ..didnt even think of how the families of small children dies tragically due to bombing, due to adults craziness..Didnt they even think if that happen to their small sons and daughters how would they feel... Cmonlah...it has been tooooooo many years.... the Zionis couldnt get over with HITLER...so..Hitler butchering their ancestors..they have to also butchered others.. You have God too lah..and your God approve all this??!! What kind of human are you dear superpowers, so you created Superman, batman, x-men, spiderman..for What!!.. I thought to save the world..

For those who loves to fight, who loves to provoke, who is selfish, who is greedy, who manupulate - Can't you see the act of nature has done to you and your family..

I pray - Im very sure what goes around comes back around..sooner or later..

PEACE

strategies..

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.. in almost everyone life you have to have strategy... one who has the most strategical mind..is a genius...some strategies are manipulative.. some very straight forward strategies..for me i am not an intelligent kinda person.. quite bangang and slow sometime... but i always believe in God... I don't strategies.. for me simple i plan and the execute.. get results..short term or long term.. well sometime plans .. sucks too..with the help of people around me... well obviously i sound like I have that more in my life...not blaming anybody else tho...

One 'VERY GOOD' strategy is that Matarazzi condemn Zidane's family... for me... ( well i obviously back Zidane.. :) ) .. that was a sick strategy... but then again France lost not because of Zidane.. the team was not just as strong... and this time the final world cup match is the most unentertaining... except for the 'head-banging' drama..hehe

Recently and at present.. the Zionis .. vs Hisbullah/ Lubnan war...I just dont know.. what to say.. as if i say something i can change this people...war strategies now is not like war even during centuries ago... now a lot of ' pukul curi'... just hit anywhere they like and kills the women, children and the elderly... What the #$%&^#&*%

Politics.... ughh... it can make people crazy and hasty.. it can also make people happy..well depending on the.. strategy

and just yesterday.. our Siti make the official announcement... after making people anxiously waiting..speculate, assuming, exaggerating... for so long.. Was that a strategy?...

PEACE

* EVERLASTING SMILE *

PEACE

SSSITIS AND MMMMMMAWIS

I am so tired reading news heading and email..about Siti and Mawi...oh GAWD please...some may say to me yalah because you're not their fan..If I am their fan... I am very annoyed to even be their fan... for me when i adore a popular person I look at their profesional career... but of course many of us not like that.. not to say that im not drawn to it too..very interesting topic to 'discuss' to gossip i mean and very profitable story for the media espescially when their wedding photos will be splashed all over the mediaprint in not maybe just this country, also Singapore and Brunei and Indonesia... but this is toooooo much... as long as Siti not talking or as long as Mawi not confirming in whatever 'he' says, there will be more and more pressure to both media and this two. Well I guess that is the price that they have to pay when they are rich and famous. But whatever they say , people will assume otherwise and if they dont stop to give statements that makes people ' read between the lines' then this will go and on and on...( it can make people assume that mega rich future husband have a share on all newspapers esp the malay newspapers and magazines ). Some artiste will prone to give statements for the sake of publisity or so i call cheap publisity ( c or s? ) which are always been ' advise ' ( again c or s ?) by the company they're attach to or the manager they 'attach' with.

So please lah Siti and future husband, just quickly make a press conference and give every single detail about your wedding thingy, so that no more questionmarks and all they have to do now ( the media and the fans and the pro ex-wife ) is just wait for the wedding. "every single detail...!' sounds easy but not... I know..but i want to see other matters than just your wedding trivia in the news. and then after the wedding tell the press don't ask about when Im gonna have a baby coz its an act of God. And Mawi, after this just say that you dont wanna have other girlfriend yet and truely you dont have one until you're mature enough and when you have one just say so..and what is your plan..'every single detail'..coz the next wedding trivia is yours pulak...ughhhh

PEACE

SPONGEBOB SQUAREMIND

Spongebob Squarepants is me and my kids favourite cartoon. Why..because he is silly but wit, naughty but naive and funny but cool..


This is may be our going to be favourite cartoon movie if it comes to Malaysia.. and of course i also like the classic disney movies and some new disney movies and the PIXAR movies.. entertaining! But as i was 'googling to look for this Spongebob web for my kids.. I came across this site entitled " Can Spongebob makes you Gay! " check this out altho its out of date..which is early last year.. but I just found it and I think its ridiculously funny http://msnbc.msn.com/id/6852828 it is some sort of 'humanity' comments like what the pokemon, south park, etc got ..

I have no comment exactly..for me cartoon is cartoon, fantasies, fake, funny...

PEACE

Hurray No 2, 3, 4, 5, 6

HURRAY!!

No. 2 - My other half have finally got a new steady job in an establish company since 5 years ago... we were struggling with mega financial instability. He was doing business and repeatedly got conned. got a job but in small companies that have all the reasons in the world of not paying salary. And of course due to that we created a huge debt while i am the one whose taking care of the kids full time support us as best as i can as i have a small income from my business. God is trying to mellowed us down i suppose and somehow or rather we survived and we have become a stronger person and can start paying all the debts and bills monthly with a clear mind. Hurray! and now hope that there will no problem working there.

No 3 - My friend just delivered her second baby after almost 9 days overdue and it was normal delivery..so very happy for her. Her first one is July 2004..that is after her 7 years of marriage.. as a mother i am sooo happy for her...altho you know...taking care of kids...err till now until she/he starts school..we will be complaning all the way...hehe..Hurray!! ;-)

No 4 - We the Stmarians KL F5 1989 manage to group back together via email..one by one addresses came in and i am soo glad.. just before it was only us Malays..but then all the other races came in.. Muhibah and we plan to meet up in a very near future which maybe by end of this year lepas Raya. and our head organiser and us were discussing on having a MEGA birthday party the year when all of us turn 40!! and a weekend family getaway!! Hurray!

No 5 - I also manage to group up back my 'sisters in crime' back in my college days..and my friends are some from sabah and 1 from Sarawak... we emailed each other very frequently now.. and I m very happy about it..i now can gain back my Sabahans accent again...When I was in college people thot i was one of the 'orang asli' Sabah hahaha Hurray!

No 6 - ITALY and FRANCE in the final yeaaaaa!!! Go France go! Go my darling Zidane Go!!

My predictions towards the end of the tournament is true... should've bet..Hurray!!

PEACE

Hurray No 1

I have 6 Hurrays since I last wrote my previous blogs.

Last Saturday I've got to go to watch movie with friends yeaaaaa ..( 'Got to go?'..sounds like I had a pathetic life..well i am ) I think it has been 6 years since my first baby I have not watch movie with friends. The last time I remembered while i was pregnant and watch.. prepare this... Leftenan Adnan.. Malaysian Hero..not bad.. the kind of historic movie that I would watch..instead of the stupid love story from pathetic 'hunger of comercial value kinda profits rather than quality' directors. and I also remembered when I watch that movie , the boom bang bang sounds of the guns and bombs make the baby in my womb go round and round kicking..she must be terkejut (surprise) and excited..hehe kesian dia.. and since then I only watch the VCD.. itupun I have to wait till they sleep and/or i will sleep during watching unless watching cartoonlah. and last year I manage to watch Charlie and the chocolate Factory ( dgn ehsan wan's collegues - dono should 'tenkiu' or not - was not invited actually ;-i ) that was just 40 days after the 3rd baby born, I drag all three. Thank God the baby is an angel.. she sleeps all the way and then just recently Over the Hedge, again the baby who is almost 1 year old..watch the movie..like an angel. And last Saturday, five of us watch Scary Movie 4..Hillarious!..and of course I did not watch the 1,2,3, tried to pujuk the group organizer to watch Superman, but thank God she refused, Scary Movie worth it!! The combination of Ju'on and War of the Worlds and other movies which i cant recall the title is great!..altho it is 'lawak bodoh' and then we went for 5pm lunch in Sakura Melawati, meeting another friend who cant make it for the movie. Then I went to a friend house near my house whom i tumpang kereta with, as I dont have one, and lepak at her place with another friend whom came later and we chit chat gossip gossip till 12 midnite...and I know why the two celebrity couple had a divorce this year, and I know when is that mega celebrity going to get married, and which celebrity who is a 'sl*t'. Anybody want to know..hehe call me!! Yeaaaaaaa!!..first time came home when all the children have slept...thank you hubby!!...later in maybe another or within 2 years from now..I will be able to go back to my interests...that is Pool Table and Fishing...freedom! here I come..and now i can share them with my kids....

PEACE