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September 30, 2006

Prophet Sulaiman

The other day during sahur my other half told me he was watching TV at midnight the repeat of last years of Jejak Rasul - and it is about Nabi Sulaiman a.s. and I asked him to tell me the story about King Solomon. I dont remember many stories of Prophets - I think from now on it will be my topic every now and then one Prophet at a time - so that i could remember and tell my kids ..

PROPHET SULAI'MAN (Solomon)
Sulai'man inherited Dawud's (David) prophethood and dominion. After his father's death, Sulai'man became king. He begged Allah for a kingdom such as none after him would have, and Allah granted his wish. Besides wisdom, Allah had blessed Sulai'man with many abilities. He could command the winds and understand and talk to birds and animals. Allah directed him to teach both men and jinns to mine the earth and extract its minerals to make tools and weapons. He also favored him with a mine of copper, which was a rare metal in those days.

During his time horses were the common mode of transportation. They were very essential for defense, to carry soldiers and cart provisions and weapons of war. The animals were well cared for and well trained. One day Sulai'man was reviewing a parade of his stable. The fitness, beauty and posture of the horses fascinated him so much that he kept on stroking and admiring them. The sun was nearly setting, and the time for the middle prayer was passing by. When he realized this, he exclaimed: "I surely love the finer things of life than the service of my Lord! Return them to me."

One day Sulai'man gathered his army, which had different battalions of men, jinns, birds, and animals. He marched them to the country of Askalon.
While they were passing through a valley, an ant saw the approaching army and cried out to warn the other ants: "Run to your homes! Otherwise, unaware, Sulai'man and his army might crush you!" Sulai'man, hearing the cry of the ant, smiled. He was glad that the ant knew him to be a prophet who would not intentionally harm Allah's creation. He thanked Allah for saving the ants' lives.

In Jerusalem, on a huge rock, Sulai'man built a beautiful temple to draw the people to worship Allah. Today this building is known as "The Dome of the Rock." From there, a large band of followers joined Sulai'man on pilgrimage to the Holy Mosque in Mecca. After they had completed their hajj, they traveled to Yemen and arrived in the city of San'a. Sulai'man was impressed by their clever method of channeling water all over their cities. He was keen to build similar water systems in his own country but did not have enough springs.
He set out to find the hoopoe bird, which could detect water under the ground. He sent signals all over the hoopoe to call on him, but it was nowhere to be found. In anger, he declared that unless the bird had a good reason for its absence, he would punish it severely.
The hoopoe eventually came to Sulai'man and explained the reason for its delay. "I have discovered something of which you are not aware. I have come from Sheba (Sab'a) with important news." Sulai'man became curious, and his anger subsided. The bird continued: "Sab'a is ruled by a queen named Bilkis (Bilqis), who has plenty of everything, including a splendid throne. But in spite of all this wealth, Satan has entered her heart and the hearts of her people. She rules their minds completely. I was shocked to learn that they worship the sun instead of Allah the Almighty."
To check the hoopoe's information, Sulai'man sent a letter to the queen with the bird. He instructed the bird to remain hidden and to watch everything.
The hoopoe dropped the letter in front of the queen and flew away to hide. She excitedly opened and read it: "Verily! It is from Sulai'man, and verily! It reads: 'In the Name of Allah, the Most Beneficent, and Most Merciful; be you not exalted against me, but come to me as Muslims (true believers who submit with full submission).'" (27:30-31 Quran).
The queen was very disturbed and hurriedly summoned her advisors. They reacted as to a challenge, for they felt that there was someone challenging them, hinting at war and defeat, and asking them to submit to his conditions.
They told her that they could only offer advice, but it was her right to command action. She sensed that they wanted to meet Sulai'man's invasion threat with a battle. However, she told them: "Peace and friendship are better and wiser; war only brings humiliation, enslaves people and destroys the good things. I have decided to send gifts to Sulai'man, selected from our most precious treasure. The courtiers who will deliver the gifts will also have an opportunity to learn about Sulai'man and his military mighty."
Sulai'man's reconnaissance team brought him the news of the arrival of Bilkis' messengers with a gift. He immediately realized that the queen had sent her men on a probing mission thus, he gave orders to rally the army. The envoys of Bilqis, entering amidst the well-equipped army, realized that their wealth was nothing in comparison to that of the kingdom of Sulai'man's palace floors, which were made of sandalwood and inlaid with gold.
They noticed Sulai'man surveying his army, and they were surprised at the number and variety of soldiers, which included lions, tigers, and birds. The messengers stood in amazement, realizing that they were in front of an irresistible army.
The envoys marveled at the splendor surrounding them. They eagerly presented their queen's precious gifts and told Sulai'man that the queen wished that he would accept them as an act of friendship. They were shocked by his reaction: he did not even ask to open the covers of the containers! He told them: "Allah hagiven me plenty of wealth, a large kingdom, and prophethood. I am, therefore, beyond bribery. My only objective is to spread the belief in Tawheed, the Oneness of Allah."
He also directed them to take back the gifts to the queen and to tell her that if she did not stop her kind of worship he would uproot her kingdom and drive its people out of the land.
The queen's envoys returned with the gifts and delivered the message. They also told her of the wonderful things they had seen. Instead of taking offense, she decided to visit Sulai'man. Accompanied by her royal officials and servants, she left Sheba, sending a messenger ahead to inform Sulai'man that she was on her way to meet him.
Sulai'man asked the jinns in his employ whether anyone among them could bring her throne to he palace before she arrived. One of them said; "I will bring it to you before this sitting is over." Sulai'man did not react to this offer; it appeared that he was waiting for a faster means. The jinns competed with each other to please him. One of them named Ifrit said: "I will fetch it for you in the twinkling of an eye!"
No sooner had this one - who had the knowledge of the Book - finished his phrase than the throne stood before Sulai'man. The mission had, indeed, been completed in the blinking of an eye. Sulai'man's seat was in Palestine, and the throne of Bilqis had been in Yemen, two thousand miles away. This was a great miracle performed by one of those sitting with Sulai'man.
When Bilqis arrived at Sulai'man's palace, she was welcomed with pomp and ceremony. Then, pointing to the altered throne, Sulai'man asked her whether her throne looked like that one. She looked at it again and again. In her mind she was convinced that her throne could not possibly be the one she was looking at, as hers was in her palace; et, she detected a striking similarity and replied: "It is as if it were the very one, and resembles mine in every respect." Sulai'man judged that she was intelligent and diplomatic.
He then invited her into the great hall, the floor of which was laid in glass and shimmering. Thinking it was water, as she stepped on the floor, she lifted her skirt slightly above her heels, for fear of wetting it. Sulai'man pointed out to her that it was made of solid glass.
She was amazed. She had never seen such things before. Bilqis realized that she was in the company of a very knowledgeable person who was not only a ruler of a great kingdom but a messenger of Allah, as well. She repented, gave up sun worship, accepted the faith of Allah, and asked her people to do the same.
It was finished; Bilqis saw her people's creed fall apart before Sulai'man. She realized that the sun which her people worshipped was nothing but one of Allah's creatures.

Sulai'man's public work was largely carried out by the jinns. This was a punishment for their sins of making people believe that they were all-powerful, knew the unseen, and could foresee the future. As a prophet, it was Sulai'man's duty to remove such false beliefs from his followers.
Sulai'man lived amidst glory, and all creatures were subjected to him. Then Allah the Exalted ordained for him to die. His life and death were full of wonders and miracles; thus, his death harmonized with his life and glory. His death, like his life, was unique. The people had to learn that the future is known neither by the jinns, nor by the prophets, but by Allah alone. Sulai'man's effort in this direction did not end with his life, for even his death became an example. He was sitting holding his staff, overseeing the jinns at work in a mine. He died sitting in this position. For a long time no one was aware of his death, for he was seen sitting erect. The jinns continued with their sand toil, thinking that Sulai'man was watching over them.
Many days later, a hungry ant began nibbling Sulai'man's staff. It continued to do so, eating the lower part of the staff, until it fell out of Sulai'man's hand, and his great body fell to the ground. People hurried to him, realizing that he had died a long time ago and that the jinns did not perceive the unseen, for had the jinns known the unseen, they would not have kept working, thinking that Sulai'man was alive.

September 26, 2006

She fast!

..hehe cute.. got the picts from aizuddin web...

Yesterday I was out from noon till 6 pm - leaving the kids with their dad..and guess what, ayska fasted! - the whole day!! Yeeehaaa - Good thing I made an effort to wake her up at 4am to sahur - the rm1 per day works too! So I cooked special dish for her - the prawns and beans fried.. and last night she has no problem waking up for sahur.. m so very happy.. and hope and pray it last for 30 days...

PEACE

Real World show

I am the kind of person who loves music, I 'used' to play some musical instruments- but now don't know if i can still remember to read the notes. I can play organ, clarinet, a bit of piano, guitar, saxaphone and drums. .. last time i used to write my own songs and lyrics..only listened by me ..but that was during my school college days. Wanted to takeup diploma in musics but my dad was not keen with the idea..so proceed to business studies and insurance ( I wonder what i'd become if i actually took the music diploma - que sera sera ) and..like everybody else I like to sings... since the Japs created karaoke, i am the most excited person.. if we go to karaoke places - there will be lagu wajib - that is from sheila majids, guns n roses, endless love ( duet with other half ), whitney houston's, debbie gibsons - these are the must-sing songs - so as you can see i like variety of musics - but not errm..dangdut tho - sounds to flirtitious - but to people who can sing dangduts and lagu asli ( traditional songs ) - I salute! - not easy.. = and my priority is rnb then rock then pop..and anything that sounds good to my ear... Once i entered a singing competition in a local pubs about 7 years ago - that was my first and the last - got 2nd place - not bad - I think I lost because I had Stage fright!! - menggigilll satu badan ...

..and thennnn comes the singing competition reality show - started of by the American Idol and the Academia Fantastica ( somethin like that -from Mexico ).. and the 'demam' got into our local tv producers who wants to create tons of money - via smses - the demam effects Malaysians so much as we now have the Malaysian Idol, Mentor, Akademi Fantasia and latest - One in a Million = and most entry age was 17 till 30 - and I like ughhhhhhh why didnt this competitions not here when I was within the age range - like i berani sangat lah hehee - stage-fright nanti kena gelak satu Malaysia - and then of course to win such competitions - in Malaysia or most countries in the world - u got to have looks, single or available - espescialy 'sms - public voting' are concern. and most of the voters would be the kids and the makciks and pakciks who's life lack of entertainments (maybe)... and I have to admit - I like to watch these shows too along with other reality shows like the Amazing race, Apprentice, Survivor ( eh out of topic pulak ) - anyways, i like watching but i dont sms mainly because I dont have the xtra money to do so and another thing i feel i dont earn anything out of it - so why bother!.. So what I do is - watch, criticized the singer and the juries and complaint why the right person didnt win! hehe..

I think here it has been 5 years this kind of reality show is on - and it is actually getting sickening - when the wrong person wins esp the Akademi Fantasia shows - and i dont concentrate to watch that anymore until recently they had One in a Million - and I lurveeee this particular guy name Faizal - a performer - but didnt ,,what didnt what - didnt get the one million - because!? - he's..... married!!! maybe too urban and the winner is...belongs to the race who is very determine to win - but then maybe she deserves it..

..but like Paul Moss said that Faizal makes the people who believes in him feels very proud of him.. and i believe in him.. and i ACTUALLY vote for him twice right after he perform.. the FIRST TIME.. I vote..just to get the reply back from the telco saying that the voting is already close and both sms cost me RM1..ughhh..silly me silly me..!

So... i manage to get his performance in YouTube for
FAIZAL and also FARHAN who also didnt win in Akademi Fantasia but did a superb performance - (trust me - you people should watch this) - .. what to do..public voting via sms sucks...

FAIZAL ROCKS!!
PEACE

September 24, 2006

RAMADHAN

Today is the first day of Ramadhan, now my eldest girl is almost 6 years old, and she talks and she thinks and talks and asked 1 million questions - so explaining about this special month of Ramadhan is quite 'difficult' for me - as m not that religious - fundamentally m okay. So have to explain in their 'language' what they should and should not do during Ramadhan..

So I told her yesterday
" As a muslim you have to fast"
" What is fasting mummy?"
" Fasting is whereby you cant eat and drink and fight with your brother for 30 days"
" 30 daysssss wahhh so long " - and then she went and explained to her brother (2 years old) who's smiling cheekily repeating what she says that " we cannot fight for 30 days " and the brother - dont know what she's talking about, run around the couch screaming the word

" Puasa Puasa "
..and i asked him to stop running around and grabbed him and asked " Amar nak puasa tak " ( Do you want to fast? )
He struggled to let go and say " Taknak!" (don't want) and managed to free himself and ran around again..
then i turned to Ayska " Camne..boleh puasa tak esok? "( Can you fast tomorrow ?)
" Hmm.. if I dont fast then how? "
" Well, If u dont fast then you cannot Raya "
" Alaaahh...oklah " - and she sit down watching tv quietly, and i know she's thinking how to go about it and to ask more questions.
Then I discussed with my other half over the phone on how to make her fast and I gave the receiver to ayska and they talked about it.
" What did Abah says?"
" Abah says he will give rm1 per day per puasa "
"Hmm ok...we start fasting tomorrow ok"
"OK!!", cheerily

The next morning (today) , m still sleeping, she woke me up
" Mummy can i take a sip of water? "
Very sleepy "Huh..hmm..why? "
" I'm thirsty.."
Pity her and thinking that she didnt sahur last night..my fault!!..
" Oklah..sikit je tau " ( only a bit)
" Ok..after that I continue my fast "
.. I was blinking..

So before i prepare breakfast for the two small ones, I reminded her - that the breakfast is only for them..she said " OK! "
then when the small ones happily eating, she came to me slowly and said
" Can I have a bit? "
I said " No! we are fasting, remember? "
" Yeah but i took one piece of bread this morning " ( at least she tells the truth ) - and I was
" Laaaaa - You didnt fast today - how to raya? "
" Ok ok tomorrow I fast "
..I smiled...

hmm...any more tips to teach them to fast?

PEACE

September 12, 2006

If I'm a celebrity...

In some magazines there will be a column on interviewing celebrities or VIPs that needs direct answers from them - not pertaining about themselves as in career or family questions but about their true self - and when i read it, I would also pretend how would i answer it if i'm the celebrity ;-) and no, no i'm not the 'gila-glamour' kinda person - just pretending - now i have the chance to answer some questions adapted from some magazines and make it public! kewllll..

Inner beauty for you is?
Someone who is smart, funny and sincere

What makes a woman attractive?
Simple and elegant woman with a real smile

What MUST you have with you all the time?
My ATM card that has money in it

The best advice you'd ever get?
Just be yourself and keep reaching for the stars

Your dream 'birthday'?
Travelling all around the world with my family

Your Best Achievement?
Being a MOM

What makes a person sexy?
lips like Angelina Jolie

If you become a minister which portfolio you would prefer most?
Ministry of Outer space ( hehe ) - that would be the science and Technology ministry, right?

Who would you like to bump into? and if you do what would your reaction be?
Matt Damon, Julia Roberts. - "stunned", Brian Mcknight - "shout", Tun Mahathir - shake his hand ( did that twice ), My religion teacher - hug

If you become a Superman/woman what would you do first?
Destroy all weapons and War-prone equipments

What can't you live without?
My Children

What was your best birthday gift?
A Huge Garfield hugable pillow

So there you go..From my answers, what kind of person am I ? Well thats me! Theres more.. but i got tired thinking..maybe in my next next entry..

PEACE

Dealova again

Being obsessed by the song..again i post the same topic ... after listening to it many many times...just realized that it is more than a love song... as per many would translate it..for me...its deeper..its spiritual...no wonder i like the song...
Can listen to the song
here


i am human and i need to be love by 'me'

PEACE

September 07, 2006

A Good Husband



I have always been thinking - theres loads of tv programs and articles in magazines/newspapers on women vs marriage/family issues - many many many of them - the listener/reader and actively participate is women - discussing every single minute about everything - and i notice callers of such programs - women - panels - women. What does that lead to? Men just dont give a damn about this basic issues? - they are so egoistic to know about it and prefer to handle it on their own - generally - not all - as i realize theres a slight improvement for them to speak up.

Malaysian culture or maybe in a more 'civilized' countries - men/husband are so in power that women are sooooooooo afraid that they'd be left or become the first wife - for muslim the power is "i-can-marry-another-one-up-to-4-if-i-dont-love-u-anymore-due-to-( 1001 reasons/excuses)" - not to criticised islamic law - but this 'law'is being 'misused' by men who doesn't fully understand the circumstances needed and will occur - they only see the heaven without thinking that they could/may create 'hell' out of it. and so from there women busily discuss on how to pleased husband, how to cook this and that (for husband), which slimming centre that they should go, how to look young till eternity et cetera. Not that i dont do that - i do, i almost do - and i know 'syurga di bawah tapak kaki suami'( heaven is under husband's feet ;) - u obey/respect/do good to your husband you'll go to heaven ) but takdelah sampai pening-pening kepala nak fikir - just take it as it comes. It also doesnt mean that i feel secure of not having my other half living for another women - for me - simple ( well maybe not too simple)- if men didnt appreciate and cherish the family - he has to be prepared of whatever consequences.. women may be soft..but they're tough.

So, due to my thinking , i decided to 'google' around for a topic on ' a good husband' from the world site - and i found a few interesting ones like
here , here and here and also here i have actually an entry on a good wife guide 1955 here before...so i'm being fair. But to my amazement..i searched on similar topic in google from malaysian sites - guess what - none! - nothing constructive - no tips - ok ok i said, maybe wrong keyword - tried 'suami baik ( good husband ) - none - 'suami bertanggungjawab' ( responsible husband) both english and malay -none - hmmm - and i thot how can this be!!! - tak ada logika!! - and my last search was - 'suami mithali' ( mitahli is an arabic work for good) - Yessss - got one from Dato' Dr. Fadzilah Kamsah - the muslim way/tips to become good husband - phew - no wonderrrr...... - he must be the only good husband here in Malaysia = no offence guys - i may be wrong - but seriously it is difficult to find that topic in the Malaysian webs. .. heres the lists - but like i said - do they even bother.. ironically..we women (still) do...

1. Learn how to empathize. Most people refuse to empathize. This is not a gender issue; women are just as prone to this problem as you most likely are. I can‘t tell you how many people I‘ve heard saying, “If I show empathy, doesn’t that mean I agree with what my partner is saying? And I don’t! They’re wrong!” Empathizing does not mean you agree. It just means you care enough to listen and hear what your partner is saying. If empathizing as a communication skill were taught in every elementary school, our world would be a less violent place. Start at home. Now. Allow your partner to speak her heart. Listen without judgment. Then mirror back what you think you’ve heard until you get it right.
2. Stop trying to be an emotional Mr. Fix-It. Empathy is not about charging in to make it all better. Most of us get all bolluxed up thinking our partner wants us to solve the problem for us. It isn’t true. We just want someone to say, “Wow, that must really hurt. That must feel really hard,” to say it with deep concern and love and mean it. Just put yourself in your wife’s place--even for a moment--and feel her pain. That’s it. It can be very, very difficult when you’re in emotional reaction to what she is saying. But that’s the key to all of it--not only to happier marriages but to happier relationships in general. Think of it this way: your wife’s issues are hers, and part of the learning and growing work she needs to do in this life. You don’t want to take that soul-strengthening process away from her. But you also don’t want to continually re-wound her in her hurt places. You need to be her cheerleader, as she is yours.
3. Own your stuff. We all have emotional baggage and issues. Deal with yours and encourage your wife to do the same with hers. Chances are you chose each other because your issues dovetail neatly and you bring them up in each other. Commit to loving yourself and all your flaws, and to gaining a deeper level of self-acceptance. Then simply Be There as your wife struggles to do the same. Do what you can to encourage and help with the process. But if your issues are the Marriage-Killing variety, you may need some outside help in dealing with them. Please, please do not fall into the predictable and all-too-common male trap of refusing to get professional help. If you want to kill your marriage dead, this will do it. You show yourself to be a finer, stronger man when you admit that your stuff could use a little assistance.
4. Speak your heart. Your wife might need some help here, too, because this is truly a tricky one. Most of us allow the poison of judgment and blame to creep in when speaking to our significant others. This is counterproductive. Speaking from the heart means going deep to the feeling place and saying what you know to be deeply true FOR YOU--in other words, make “I” statements rather than “you” statements. Not “You’re thoughtless and selfish because you forgot my birthday,” but “I felt so hurt and not cared for when you forgot my birthday.” Nobody can argue with an “I” statement. Your feelings are your feelings. Most people get caught in the trap of “I must make them get it! I must make them understand!” You can’t legislate whether or not your partner will really hear you, or how they will react to you if they do. But it is a true balm for the spirit’s wounds for your own deep self to hear you speaking your truest truth, whether the Other hears you or not.

5. Avoid being judgmental. It might help to keep this little maxim in mind: Where there is judgment, there is fear. If you’re feeling massively judgmental of your partner, take it as a golden opportunity to look more deeply to see what’s really eating at you. What triggered you? What old feelings does this situation bring up? Nobody wants to self-expose and show their vulnerability to someone who will shame them for it. Most shamers and blamers are overcompensating for feelings of inferiority, trying to make themselves look better at their partner’s expense. It is far better to face the fact that you are both flawed and messed-up human beings, but capable of self-acceptance. If you have chosen a partner you truly do not respect in an attempt to work out old childhood stuff, this is a Marriage Killer; refer to # 3 above.
5 more click here


Dato Dr. Fadzilah Kamsah
1 Pasang niat dan berdoa untuk menjadi suami terbaik. Tanpa berniat dan berdoa anda tidak mungkin jadi suami yang cemerlang. Ramai suami terlupa
2 Bersyukur kerana mempunyai pasangan hidup. Yakinlah bahawa isteri anda adalah pasangan terbaik yang Tuhan tentukan untuk anda. Ketentuan Tuhan adalah yang terbaik.
3 Suami mithali menjadi kebanggaan isteri. Pastikan anda membentuk sifatpositif dan istimewa. Cuba tanya diri apakah sifat atau amalan yang boleh dibanggakan oleh isteri anda.

4 Setiap hari pulang dengan senyum dan bersemangat. Apabila suami tersenyum, isteri dan anak-anak akan bahagia dan rahmat Tuhan akan turun. Senyumlah apabila sampai ke rumah.
5 Pastikan anda ada masa untuk berbual dengan isteri setiap hari. Semuaisteri bahagia apabila dapat berbual dengan suami. Berapa minit yang anda luangkan unutk berbual dengan isteri setiap hari ?
6 Telefon isteri ataupun hantar SMS sekadar untuk menyatakan yang anda sayang ataupun rindu pada isteri. Isteri anda akan berasa seronok dan bahagia apabila mendapat panggilan ataupun mesej tersebut.
7 Hiburkan hati isteri anda dengan bercerita, buat lawak atau gurauan yangmesra. Setiap gurauan mengubat hati isteri dan mengeratkan hubungan suami isteri.
8 Pastikan anda bergurau senda dengan isteri di dalam kenderaan semasa dalam perjalanan ke tempat kerja ataupun ke mana sahaja. Ramai suami membazir masa dengan membisu semasa di dalam kenderaan.
9 Amalkan makan bersama setiap hari. Berbual mesra dan nasihat menasihatisemasa makan. Amalan ini akan menarik hidayat Tuhan dan mengeratkan hubungan. Elakan berbual perkara yang melalaikan semasa makan.
10 Ajak isteri mandi bersama sekali sekala. Bergurau senda semasa mandibersama adalah sunah yang dapat mengeratkan hubungan suami isteri.
40 more click here

PEACE

September 05, 2006

The ultimate love song

The first time in my life ... an indonesion song 'haunt' me.. a love song... poetic lyrics superb music arrangement.

DEALOVA by Once

Aku ingin menjadi mimpi indah dalam tidurmu
aku ingin menjadi sesuatu yang mungkin bisa kau rindu
Karena langkah merapuh tanpa dirimu
Karena hati telah letih
Aku ingin menjadi sesuatu yang selalu bisa kau sentuh
Aku ingin kau tahu bahwa ku selalu memujamu
Tanpamu sepinya waktu merantai hati Oh……
Bayangmu seakan-akan …………

Kau seperti nyanyian dalam hatiku
Yang memanggil rinduku padamu oh……
Kau seperti udara yang kuhela kau selalu ada
Hanya dirimu yang bisa membuatku tenang
Tanpa dirimu aku merasa hilang dan sepi

Kau seperti nyanyian dalam hatiku
Yang memanggil rinduku padamu
Oh …… Kau seperti udara yang kuhela
Kau selalu ada, selalu ada, dan selalu ada
Yang selalu ada dan selalu ada ……

...suddenly i feel that i still have d romantika d' amore...;-) without knowing what dealova actually means...is it an indonesian word..? and... i thot Once.. is pronounce 'wans'..but no..its
'On-Chair'. Why? - utusan malaysia - name iz:Elfonda Mekel. anggota kumpulan Dewa 19 itu berkata, semuanya bermula daripada abang-abangnya yang tidak dapat memanggil nama penuhnya dengan lengkap.
“Kakak-kakak (abang) saya sering panggil saya Fonce atau Fonca dan akhirnya kekal sebagai Once. Lagipun nama itu senang disebut berbanding nama sebenar saya,”


PEACE

September 02, 2006

Why your kids shouldnt pick their nose..hehe


..Jangan marah aaa... I also actually very the shock to see this photo hehehe

PEACE

Can you find the 9 people..?


Alamak... I can only find 8... Can anyone tell me another one?




















PEACE

September 01, 2006

IKLAN


PEACE

alahai... have to write this lah

Aiyaaa..has to comment la this one...has to get it out of my chest...that 28th night where all tv stations are 'racing' for ratings - the Datin S and Datuk K wedding TV3, the Mawi Ina RTM/Astro, then Channel 9 - the regular Chef Wan thingy ( which I sometime watch ), then in 8TV ada PRison Break ( which i rarely missed - but tht nite i have to skip it - have to and its worth it - i tell u why - moreover i can read the PB's episodes in the net ) then after that at ntv7 ada emmy award.. I actually pinned down to the couch the whole nite - thank God the little ones are asleep.
I AM not the fan of this popular gilerzz, Siti and MAwi, but I like to follow the controversies - it sort off colour a bit of my not so 'get-a -life' life.
and so I watch the Wedding Of The Decade - beautiful set-up, the whole hall is soo enchanting - and looking at crowd--fuhhh ramainyaaa ( so many ) - so proud being invited i guess - for some of them.. My little girl love Siti's 'cinderella' dress and the cake. But what i love about the wedding the most is Kris Dayanti - SUPERB performance - the local ones - alamakk, lazy to comment lah - well let just say - I dont like it at all..and the funny part is - Siti HAS to sing lagu cintan cintun (lovey dovey ) dia with her 'dress' (as she always do) with the lyrics such as 'peluklah daku etc etc' infront of the VIPs - well is her wedding, is her right to do what she wants to do - tapi kelakarlah babe..and her husband, when he notice the camera focussing at him - he smiles and if he dont know the camera is at him he frown..err..why aahh .. Just realize that its a BIGGG reponsibility to marry a diva, as he just left his wife eh.. and I notice Tun Mahathir was sleeping/closing his eyes - maybe thinking how to deal with the cabinet ministers ...err...again?.. BTW.. CONGRATULATIONS ..DK and DS - hope it last...
And some friends of mine went - One of them who is the relative of DK - initially dont want to go as was 'segan' as they are relative from DK side - but they went anyway - and she said the food was just ordinary maybe because too many 'ear-pain' singing - and it was a boring night...And i said you should've stayed home and watch MAwi- Ina shows and enjoy yorself - and she was 'yaaa laaa' -everybody is talking about it laa...
and Gawddddd that show..is soooooooo funnyyyyyy - even Rosyam who interviewed Ina was trying not too laugh - thank God he's an actor hehe.. Ina was practically asking Mawi to open up his heart back to her... Its a disgrace for us womennnn... that Mawi is really cold towards her even when she's crying..and the climax - SHE SINGS!!!! ( very very the pitchy - Pls lah... if she really wants to be popular - pls get her trained with a vocal trainer for 8 years) - merayu-( begging ) and 'mendayu-dayu' ( 'melodious' - is it the word aarr ) Oh my... I was laughing till i fell off the couch and - my girl was like " Mummy mummy pasal apa mummy gelak " ( why are you laughing ).. I still laugh without answering her and she continues " OOO..mummy gelak sebab dia nak kahwin dgn Mawi ye..ooo...sebab dia suara tak sedap ye.." and she kept questioning me - and i just say " takde apalah " ( malas nak explain..).. that is a REAL JOKE better than American funniest video - and that is why it is worth it babe! Sorrylah Ina , I know you are very sad... but u just did something stupid... dont do that again or should you? So for those who missed it - can watch it on YouTube - it is very malay malay kinda thingylah if you know what i mean... but the most i like about the show is the song sang by ONCE - like that song..

PEACE