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September 17, 2008

Life..precious life 2...

Last two days, i called up my friend, the one who is having acute leukemia (the earlier entry about her here.) I will always make a point to call her like, once in every one or two months the very least. Her condition has not improve.

Early July she told me she went to Indonesia, advised by her relatives who is staying there, seeking for alternative medicine. She even called me from Indonesia and told me about the situation she had to go thru. It wasnt as easy as she thought, as she had to wait in a long queue and took them days to prescribe the medicines. Nevertheless, she was happy she could go somewhere, rather than sitting at home feeling bored. When she came back home, she was offered a job by her previous employer. She was very happy, being able to do part time lecturing at the college and being able to earn extra income for herself and family despite her being sick. She is very fortunate, as her present boss is very kind and very understanding. He allows her to perform her job at her own pace as at times she has to spent a few days in the hospital for the bone marrow checkup and all sorts of check up. She explained to me how is the process of poking the needle almost as big as d thumb, at her back and recently at her backside...very painful.

Recently, her boss brought her along with other staffs to Bali. "It is a very beautiful place," she said, and i told her.."owh..i so envy you, havent been there". Cracked a few jokes. ( justa turn the conversation to something more cheerful ) She laughed. Glad to hear her laugh. She told me her boss will arrange for her to go to India to seek treatment from the specialists there and also to bring her and family to London, for a holiday. Isnt that very very very nice of him? This boss was actually under her supervision when he first joined the company and she treated him well, and this favor he said, is in return to appreciate her contribution for him to climb up the ladder successfully.

I told her, oh wow, things happen for a reason... This is so good to hear. I am very delighted the amount of appreciation that her boss are willing to give, priceless!..regardless of skin colour. As for me, the least i could do is being a true friend. i dont have much, in a sense of monetary or material, to give her. I appreciate her for giving me the thought about life, kept reminding me to do the right thing.She, over and over again stress the point on how she appreciate me, for listening to her. Not that i demand for that, but i believe to appreciate oneself, we need to appreciate others, in whatever condition we are, just show it..we wont lose anything. In fact, i believe we gain more! But of course for some people or even mua have this big chunk of ego to fight with ;-p...tired of being the first to start things...now as mua life is back like the way it was .. anotha ;-p..ish no fun!

aper..ni..tetiba offtrack...


Anyways...Her baby, is now very healthy and cheerful...a brilliant baby boy....She manage to fast, as she said she dont eat a lot. At present...the doc suggested to her to increase the dose of the med from 400 to 800..double....not good..

Oh God..please keep her strong...

*1. great chat dank! *wink*

*2. forgiven but not forgotten..hehe..perasan plus vain

PEACE

17 Comments:

Blogger Angel said...

i hope everything goes well for her......

her boss wants assistant or not? hehehehehehe ;)

Wed Sep 17, 11:40:00 pm GMT+8  
Blogger neomesuff said...

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Wed Sep 17, 11:43:00 pm GMT+8  
Blogger neomesuff said...

nanti i ask her to ask her boss, if he wants me to become his pet sis or not..then u can become his assistant heheeeeeeee

Wed Sep 17, 11:45:00 pm GMT+8  
Blogger Neeza Shahril said...

nice boss! that's what you get when you're sincere in helping people..

semoga she'll get better soon. Slowly I'm sure but at least there'll be improvement. Insyaallah..

Thu Sep 18, 03:33:00 am GMT+8  
Blogger Faisal Admar said...

I hope she gets better. My prayer will always be with her. Dia buat chemo ke?

Thu Sep 18, 06:06:00 am GMT+8  
Blogger waliz said...

as always...goodness will be repay back by goodness...u r such a good friend neomesuf...!

Thu Sep 18, 10:22:00 am GMT+8  
Blogger neomesuff said...

neez: very fortunate dpt boss like that...the world is roundddd...hope she gets better..

f.a: thanks bro..dia buat gak chemo..tapi tak selalu la..side effect dia teruk..

waliz: goodness will come in many ways..i am only being a normal human being..;-) thanks

Thu Sep 18, 12:17:00 pm GMT+8  
Blogger bluecrystaldude said...

Wow.. her boss is amazing! I would die to have a boss like that.. Anyway, I really glad she's living out her life. Her courage is inspiring. I am glad you are there to be with her :)

Fri Sep 19, 01:29:00 am GMT+8  
Blogger neomesuff said...

yeah who dont...this one special case lah kan. Thank you...very very inspiring

Fri Sep 19, 01:38:00 am GMT+8  
Blogger Faisal Admar said...

Betul Dr Zaitun ada cakap selalunye kalau buat chemo tu dah macam bunuh diri. Instead of bunuh cell cancer at the same time dia bunuh cells yang lain jugak. Dia akan jadi lebih sakit. Dah suruh dia try Lemongrass Juice?

Fri Sep 19, 08:19:00 pm GMT+8  
Blogger neomesuff said...

Exactly. Belom suruh dia try...will inform her..maybe very low dosage, side effects may occur...sebab dia kira tahap chronic jugak...

Sat Sep 20, 12:32:00 am GMT+8  
Blogger love-n-hate said...

My ohh My! Hope everything will gets better... Hope dia dpt bertahan...

Sat Sep 20, 02:48:00 pm GMT+8  
Blogger neomesuff said...

Yeah..as long as she could, if you read the previous entry about her, for me she is a mega strong person..

Sat Sep 20, 02:51:00 pm GMT+8  
Blogger Faisal Admar said...

There is no harm trying kan... so kalau lagi cepat dia try, lagi bagus. Harap-harap mujarab lah...

Kalau ada apa-apa perkembangan Neome update ye. Faisal memang concern sangat tentang pesakit cancer. How I wish I could help...

Sun Sep 21, 04:24:00 am GMT+8  
Blogger neomesuff said...

hmmm thanks bro..i will update..tq for the concern..

Sun Sep 21, 04:30:00 am GMT+8  
Blogger Moomykin said...

Thanks for the update on our friend. I am glad you are there for her.

Today, including your blog, I have had 3 dozes of remembering that people, friends are precious, and that we must consciously make time to grow our friendships.

You take care too.

Wed Sep 24, 11:43:00 pm GMT+8  
Blogger neomesuff said...

yre welcome kin..hmm..:-) must be blogging friendship month. a Very good friend who understands and loves us very much is so so very precious, to me....sometimes i overlook..


u take care, hugxx your lovely boys for me ya

Fri Sep 26, 04:23:00 pm GMT+8  

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