i do...
I do feel tired to be the one who always.. (well, not all the time) , look for a way to fix the situation to everyone’s satisfaction and benefit. People say that attitude is a self appreciation character (huh??..). But I do have a little problem facing mistakes and admitting no one is perfect. Leading to that problem, I did not act out of disagreement instantly, I kept it.,which makes matters worst when it is time for me to retaliate. I do think I am now in a strike-back mode ( refer to the disclaimer on my side bar ). I may smile or grin or unobtrusive and I, myself can sense the danger out of the ‘evil’ side of me. I will start to demand for people to be more appreciative like a dog. I will force them to squish their own brain..if they won’t..i will..
I do not want to hurt anybody’s feelings, I will try my very best not to. But if people ‘disturb’ me deep, they will be sorry… I will do one good first and final ‘thrust’ because I am not the type who will prolong matters… then I will remain invisible..
and I move on..
PEACE
posted by neomesuff at 10:14 pm
9 Comments:
Maybe you should be polite, grin and say this to people. "If you have any problems, please, by all means do not hesitate to ask someone else" and then you turn and walk away. It works wonders.
uh uh...very complimated matters...can i suggest counselling? hehehe...just joking...
I'm like that too..
I may look nice but I'll be a fierce tiger once someone step on my tail.. ;)
take care dear :)
Rigval: hmmm...thanks bro...i think its an excellent idea...at my current state of mind ...
waliz: actually it is not so complicated...saja layan perassan hahahahh...u give free counselling? hehehhe
neez: yeah bebeh...hi five! we do it slowly but surely..thanks dear...;-)
... be forthcoming with the person(s?) who's the object of yr "strike back" ... sometime ppl may not realise just how much of an impact their words/deeds have on others, so a non-confrontational discussion would do wonders... that helped u&me at least once, kan? :)
of course, if things that built-up in you were the cause of conscious ill-will by the other person, hmmm... also bring it up non-confrontationally (use language that doesn't attack the person directly, use the "sandwich" method, etc etc) ... otherwise things'll probably get worse instead of better ...
and ultimately, if a friendship (or whatever other relationship) is no longer valid, no longer meaningful, no longer salvagable... by all means walk away.. just make sure you've no regrets...
all the best resolving the issue...
thanks dear
We have known each other for so long and i treasure and value it so much.
I do wish issues like this will resolve with nil 'effort' from my side. This is sorta a 'shield' statement, caution sorta.
whatever the results is, i have no regrets..;-) will just step on it and go on with my life..
hugzzzzz
babe, dont be hard on yourself, the universe is created that way, if we have none of your species, it may not be balance, but mind you, dont let it get into you eh, stand up, speak up, or bitch slap if need be!
If you want to see a counselor, Waliz is the perfect mate. hehe. I can't really comment long2 today. I woke up at 10am (which far far early than usually 1pm) to watch (yet again) movie with my friend. Just to postponed it to 2pm and then to 3pm because my uncle came. Then I back home at 6.30pm, I fall asleep from 7pm to 8 - really thanks my little bro who calling me asking whether I want to buy a Giordano jacket - nonsense stuff but it really wakes me up. Then till now (3.37am), I have been visiting reading watching and commenting my friends blogs. I decided to drop the last comment on your blog since I saw this head mind electrifying thing. hehe.. I will come back later for sure. to check out other posts ok. It's been raining like mad outside. I hope my brain's not getting a short circuit. LOL.. Good nyte. oh wait, maybe I should say, good morning :)
zzzzzzZZzzzzz (read: hugzzz)
smurfet: babe...thanks..and i am actually too baik to bitch slap ppl hehhee..the universe creates lotsa 'adventure' for us all, it just that i have to now say things out..louder than before ;-P
bcd:
o ok..heheeeeheeeeeee....dude..its an honour for u to comment here..long or short..dono when is my next entry though..but it wont be as mind boggling like this hehe..and..waht an eventful day u had today..u can sleep now ;-)
hugzzzzzzzzz 2u2..sweet dream ;-P
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